Power centered Principles trump RELATIONSHIP skillS every time

As humans, we tend to crack under pressure, reverting to unconscious, brain-wired behaviors and emotions designed to protect us when we feel threatened. Responses that are too often based on the past, faulty perspectives, and biased information.  Responses based on a hijacked nervous systems.

Responses that always cost us trust, connection, safety, and intimacy in our relationships: sometimes sacrificing perfectly good relationships, families, and homes.

We call this the Paradox of Power. 

Few people know that the mechanism in our brains responsible for love and desire, also hijacks judgment, especially when pressure is tense, and stakes are high. Causing people to experience false results.  We call this the Power Paradox.

Your relationship with the Paradox of Power will determine how you respond in critical moments, especially when complexity, ambiguity, and chaotic human dynamics are at play.

It’s what causes us to lash out, shut down, freeze up, and turn away, instead of turn toward the very love we desire. 

Power Centered principles, and the transformational methodologies learned in the I AM Powerful program, neutralize the Paradox of Power and create reliable, healthy, and deeply conscious results and relationships. 

One husband said, “Why isn’t this taught to everyone?  This would have made my entire life so much easier! I have healed more in myself and my relationship in one month than I have in 10 years of therapy.”

The kind of relationship dynamics that create costly, heartbreaking, and sometimes violent results impacting everyone in the relationship for years to come. 

The kind of relationship that lacks self-awareness, personal accountability, effective and healthy communication, and interpersonal skills that drive passionate, loving partnerships based in real equality, mutual consideration, and lasting joy.

Power Centered Relationships raise the bar, helping you crack open your heart, re-ignite your passion, and experience profound connections so you can remember why you fell in love in the first place.

In typical relationships, throughout every day pressures, we think, behave, and emote in unconscious, subtly self-sabotaging ways that leave most lovers frustrated, frantic, and frozen during the most pivotal moments in the relationship.

This makes everyone in the relationship feel drained, misunderstood, and insignificant in the place where we want to feel the safest, and matter the most. 

The challenge is, we are actually hard-wired to protect, before we connect. 

This causes lovers, even in the best circumstances, to unconsciously operate in a control-based approach that shuts down intimacy, communication, and any form of connection. In the face of complexity, ambiguity, and challenges, the kind we face everyday, those control-based automatic responses leave lovers exhausted, at least one person fleeing, and keeps us stuck in relationships that feel disconnected, fraught with misunderstandings, and ultimately lackluster, at best.    

IN FACT, 95% OF THESE CONTROL-BASED RESPONSES ARE DONE UNCONSCIOUSLY, WITHIN SECONDS.

In relationships, that is disappointing and deflating.

Creating:

• Misunderstandings that leave us feeling unheard and disrespected.
• Lack of intimacy that strips us of passion, play, and adventure.
• Miscommunications that disconnect us, leaving us to feel alone and isolated.
• Mistrust causing us to doubt ourselves, our partners, and our relationship.
• Repeating patterns that trigger us keeping us stuck and unhealthy.
• Lack of courage, truth-speaking, and bravery leaving us out of alignment with ourselves and our values.
• Isolated choices that cause us to feel like we aren’t on the same team.

Loving couples from around the world are revolutionizing the way they relate to each other with Power Centered Relationship practices, and the Four Principles of Power.